Another Year Coming Up
Life happens... yes it does.
Do you ever wonder why bad things happen to good people? One day you are having breakfast, talking to the people you love and next thing you know, you are ill, close to dying and then what? What about all the dreams you had made? what about all the places you did not get to see? what about making a real family of your own? or what about being closer to your bio-family and friends?
Yes, life happens.
Then something changes, you get a second chance and then what? it is confusing tough. Do you go back to your regular life style as it was? or do you try to find the meaning of that phase?
You'll be surprise how you see everything differently. Even if you wanted to be the same, you cannot do it. Something greater has changed you forever.
Your entire life shuffles in front of you like a film, like a slide show and you begin to make sense of your life... the left turns that you took when you were supposed to turn right, the short cuts you had taken when you were to do it step by step, the ignored events and memories that you sometimes try to avoid because they are painful or shameful, or make you feel guilty about. You also forget the best memories you created with the ones you love. But in that moment, you may say of clarity, it all comes back, as if you were there in that moment.
There is a purpose for everything that happens. Sometimes, it takes a while for us to rediscover who we really are and what is our purpose in this world.
So for this new year, I have learned that life happens. Deal with it, do not forget it because there is a purpose for it and I do not want to miss out on something great and then regret it.
Live life as if this is your last year and enjoy the people that come and go for there is something to learn from everybody and everything that happens. Do not miss a chance on doing good, chances do not come that often. Most importantly, learn to forgive yourself for things that you can not change and that you have experienced, there is something to learn about them.
The best goal for the new year... Love your self, its only you who can do it the best way possible.
Do you ever wonder why bad things happen to good people? One day you are having breakfast, talking to the people you love and next thing you know, you are ill, close to dying and then what? What about all the dreams you had made? what about all the places you did not get to see? what about making a real family of your own? or what about being closer to your bio-family and friends?
Yes, life happens.
Then something changes, you get a second chance and then what? it is confusing tough. Do you go back to your regular life style as it was? or do you try to find the meaning of that phase?
You'll be surprise how you see everything differently. Even if you wanted to be the same, you cannot do it. Something greater has changed you forever.
Your entire life shuffles in front of you like a film, like a slide show and you begin to make sense of your life... the left turns that you took when you were supposed to turn right, the short cuts you had taken when you were to do it step by step, the ignored events and memories that you sometimes try to avoid because they are painful or shameful, or make you feel guilty about. You also forget the best memories you created with the ones you love. But in that moment, you may say of clarity, it all comes back, as if you were there in that moment.
There is a purpose for everything that happens. Sometimes, it takes a while for us to rediscover who we really are and what is our purpose in this world.
So for this new year, I have learned that life happens. Deal with it, do not forget it because there is a purpose for it and I do not want to miss out on something great and then regret it.
Live life as if this is your last year and enjoy the people that come and go for there is something to learn from everybody and everything that happens. Do not miss a chance on doing good, chances do not come that often. Most importantly, learn to forgive yourself for things that you can not change and that you have experienced, there is something to learn about them.
The best goal for the new year... Love your self, its only you who can do it the best way possible.
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